Tuesday, 29 September 2020

Let me Remember him

With this song of his


It's one of my Fav SPB songs - I love the lyrics, the music and the way it is sung so superbly by SPB

Now, who is SPB?

He is the singer S.P. Balasubrahmanyam who recently passed away at the age of 74, known to many of us as SPB.

In this video, we can see Saeed Jaffrey, Dimple Kapadia, Kamal Haasan and Rishi Kapoor (who also left us in April this year)

Lyrics are by Javed Akhtar and Music is by R.D. Burman

Hope you like this song.

Regards
Aparna

Tuesday, 22 September 2020

Don't Miss This Pic :)

It's a picture of the beautiful River Mawddach Estuary which is near Barmouth in Wales, UK.

https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/bea5285416fe97039957b429c58495080b2a44b8/0_0_5787_3473/master/5787.jpg?width=1020&quality=85&auto=format&fit=max&s=c8d63d5a3b822412dba6566f1fb3a4a0

Photography is by Nigel Hicks/Alamy. Please click to see.

Also, don't miss these Quotes :-)

Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change. - Confucius

Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out. - Iris Murdoch

In the Book of Life, The answers aren't in the back. - Charles M. Schulz

No race can prosper till it learns that there is as much dignity in tilling a field as in writing a poem. - Booker T. Washington

Face it, I didn't become famous until I took my clothes off. - Jude Law

I'm only wanted by directors for the image I give off, and it makes me angry. I always wanted to be an actor and not a beauty pageant winner. - Jude Law

I've never known any trouble than an hour's reading didn't assuage. - Arthur Schopenhauer

In love, one and one are one. - Jean-Paul Charles Aymard Sartre

Care and diligence bring luck. - Thomas Fuller

All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident. - Arthur Schopenhauer

The whole image is that eternal suffering awaits anyone who questions God's infinite love. That's the message we're brought up with, isn't it? Believe or die! Thank you, forgiving Lord, for all those options. - Bill Hicks

With foxes we must play the fox. - Thomas Fuller

If you take two kids at school, one of them has more innate capability but is a know-it-all. The other person has less innate capability but is a learn-it-all. The learn-it-all does better than the know-it-all. -  Satya Nadella

Health is not valued till sickness comes. - Thomas Fuller

We never know the worth of water till the well is dry. - Thomas Fuller

I began learning long ago that those who are happiest are those who do the most for others. - Booker T. Washington

And this intriguing article, you can give it a miss if you want to :-)

The Silent Treatment: A Tactic of Abuse and Control

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/invisible-chains/202009/the-silent-treatment-tactic-abuse-and-control

But I found it very interesting and informative and if you find others who are in a similar situation, you can pass this on to them to salvage them from their suffering.

Hope they realise what they are going through and can find some sort of respite and rescue.

That's all my sharing for now.

Have a Rang-Birangi Autumn.

Love always,
Yours, AC :-)

Monday, 31 August 2020

Today is my Hubby's B'day :-)

He's turned 49 today.

So I thought of sharing some nice quotes with you to mark the day.

Happy Reading and Happy Reflecting :-)

If you count all your assets you always show a profit. - Wilson Mizner

Love conquers all things except poverty and toothache. - Mae West

The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human can alter his life by altering his attitude. - William James

A great deal of intelligence can be invested in ignorance when the need for illusion is deep. - Saul Bellow

Whoever you are, now I place my hand upon you/ That you may be my poem/ I whisper with my lips close to your ear/ I have loved many women and men, but I love none better than you. - Walt Whitman

Love without understanding will wilt like flowers without water. - Jeffrey Bernstein

It's good to do uncomfortable things. It's weight training for life. - Anne Lamott

Without labor nothing prospers. - Sophocles

He who fears he shall suffer, already suffers what he fears. - Michel de Montaigne

I love my rejection slips. They show me I try. - Sylvia Plath

If you steal from one author it's plagiarism; if you steal from many it's research. - Wilson Mizner

A man in love is incomplete until he has married. Then he's finished. - Zsa Zsa Gabor

The things that will destroy America are prosperity at any price, peace at any price, safety first instead of duty first and love of soft living and the get-rich-quick theory of life. - Theodore Roosevelt

Life is a disease: sexually transmitted and invariably fatal. - Neil Gaiman

All generalizations are dangerous, even this one. - Alexandre Dumas

At every party there are two kinds of people - those who want to go home and those who don't. The trouble is, they are usually married to each other. - Ann Landers

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. - Marilyn Monroe

Love is like war: easy to begin but very hard to stop. - H. L. Mencken

All human wisdom is summed up in two words; wait and hope. - Alexandre Dumas

Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself. - Michel de Montaigne

God doesn’t need to punish us. He just grants us a long enough life to punish ourselves. - Barbara Kingsolver

Tuesday, 5 May 2020

My Favourite Photo :-)



Amongst all the photos I shared with you in my 'Spring Walks' blog, this is my favourite photo.

It shows glimpses of the sea through the branches of a tree.

It was taken by my son on one of his morning walks.

There is something about this mesmerising, soothing, calming, appealing, appeasing photo.....the picture stayed in my mind long after I had viewed it.

Nature in all its splendour and beauty.....and of course, thanks to my son's beautiful photography, he clicked it well....and made an impression on my mind that lasted for a long, long time.

Hope he brings back many more such nice pics and shares with us and of course, if I like any, I'll share it with you for your viewing pleasure.

Now some quotes for your notes, some serious, some humorous :-)

The next time you have a thought... let it go. - Ron White

A woman's mind is cleaner than a man's: She changes it more often. - Oliver Herford

Men should only believe half of what women say. But which half ? - Jean Giraudoux

First the doctor told me the good news: I was going to have a disease named after me. - Steve Martin

I'm writing a book. I've got the page numbers done. - Steven Wright

You may delay, but time will not. - Benjamin Franklin

Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over. - F. Scott Fitzgerald

If you cannot inspire a woman with love of you, fill her above the brim with love of herself ~ all that runs over will be yours. - Charles Caleb Colton

Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above them. - Washington Irving

The world is your oyster. It's up to you to find the pearls. - Chris Gardner


That's all my sharing for now.

Take Care,
~ Aparna ~

15 years with Boloji

Last month, I completed 15 years with Boloji as I had joined as a Poetry Editor in April 2005.

During this period, I've been able to edit and publish over 23,000 poems.

I've always been passionate about poetry and have penned over 2450 poems though not all my poems are on Boloji.

I've archived them all in PoemHunter as it gives me the facility of making an E-Book.

https://www.poemhunter.com/aparna-chatterjee/biography/

Though what I don't like about PH is that I have to submit poems with the same titles in different designs as their software cannot differentiate between poems if the titles are the same and thinks that the poet is duplicating his / her poems.

For e.g. in Boloji, I can submit different poems with the same title - She

But in PH, if I need to submit different poems with the same title - She, I have to keep changing the title designs, for e.g. She ~ She ~ *She* - She - and so on and so forth or it will not let me submit the poem thinking it is a duplication of my previous poem with the same title.

Sometimes, I keep running out of designer titles and I have to spend ages just to see how to design my title so that PH accepts my poem submission. It drives me nuts.

However, unlike on Boloji, I've kept all my poems open to comments on PH and so I interact with my fellow poets there.

I chose to do this on PH and not on Boloji because I thought that I write so many poems on a daily basis and with so much editing and publishing to do on Boloji poetry and also a lot of mail correspondence to handle, I'll not have the time to keep interacting with people all the time, responding to the reviews and comments on my poems and so I kept one site open and the other site closed so that there is less interaction but when I interact, it should be quality time as I make it a point to respond to almost all the reviews on PH barring a few, because I value people's time in reading and reviewing my poetry and so I acknowledge their responses.

15 years have passed with Boloji and it looks as if it all happened in a jiffy.....time flies.

It's not that I've always enjoyed my work in Boloji. There have been times when monotony has set in and I've not cherished reading and publishing boring poems. But many poets have enthralled me with their creations and their poems have been my favourites and have found a place in my Ed's Choice list.

https://www.boloji.com/ed-choice-list

Also, when I feel that I've read, edited and published a lot, I take some long or short breaks and I wouldn't see poems during that time or else my mind would feel clogged up and wouldn't feel refreshed enough to again focus on quality editing. Quality means a lot to me than quantity. Even if I publish 5-6 poems per day, they should be well-presented rather than just approving poems as and when they come and blindly publishing them with lots of typos and errors, theme mismatch, shoddy formatting, etc.

Some poems come to me. They hardly need any changes. I publish them as they are....But a lot of them come and I feel that they need some slick editing to make them look better so that the end product that gets published makes a good read. I won't take names but I'm sure many of my fellow poets on Boloji have seen such changes in their poems and I hope I've been able to make them happy with the finished product of their write-up.

And of course, as always, I'm not on my own on Boloji when it comes to executing such work. I'm thankful to Rajender Ji who hosts this website and helps us express ourselves and to Kapil and his team who maintain the technicalities of this website.

As for my favourite poets, well I'm not naming any....

But of course, the poets with the maximum poems in my Ed's Choice list are the ones whose creations I look forward to reading.....as they are the ones who make my day by giving me a nice poem every day :-)

Love you all,
Yours, as always,
Aparna Chatterjee

Fearing

He's God-fearing
And death-fearing
And so he prays to
God to avoid death

I'm neither
God-fearing
Nor
Death-fearing
And so it doesn't
Matter to me if
Death comes to
Me....

But what matters
To me, is that
It should be
Quick, painless
And easy, and so
If nothing else
Works, hope
Dignitas works
For me....




Dignitas is a Swiss non-profit organisation helping people with assisted dying so that they can die without prolonged suffering.

https://www.dignityindying.org.uk/why-we-need-change/dignitas/




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Air

The smell of
Death in the
Air, everywhere

Death thrives
In Covid's care




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